Amit Patel shows his trait at the Farewell day!

Amit Patel, my x-colleague; when you think/talk about him...it appears a tall, smiling, bindass, jolly and well-dressed image of a man. Yes this is Amit Patel.

I have been observing this guy ever since I know, probably since January 2008 as I was his colleague and he was supposedly reporting me.

On Jun 28, when I saw some very nice photoes coming out one by one, I planned to write a blog on the things one can learn from him. There are usually many traits one can learn from another, but followings are my personal calculations and completely my observations.

1. Be Rude  : There are times, when you have to be rude. But here come conditions are applied. Never be rude to the loving ones. You have to be rude to those who do not listen to you! In order to make them listen to you and obey you so they follow the right path for the good of all, you have to BE RUDE. I know sometimes, Amit has been rude to many people. I realize its necessary to be rude to stick to truth, to prove your point right.




2. Only Relations have power, not the money :
   
   You might have money. No doubt you can buy anything; but not the trust, not real friends, not the goodwill. This guy has is no short of money as you might know, but he is down to earth. You will never feel it from his thoughts. He believes in keep the relation going, doesnt matter he loses some money, he spends money.



3. Learn to ignore, take it easy : Everyone has troubles, everyone has problems. No one lives a problem-free life the same way no software comes bug-free. You just need to learn which are the moments you should ignore. I have heard from someone from commentary box : "Sachin believes what makes you a better cricket in choosing what deliveries not to play". In life, there are situations you need simply to learn what is important and what is not. He enjoys each moment.



4. Keep your surroundings alive :
   
   You should be a working clock and a talking tom! Its necessary to make your friends, colleagues, family feel your presence. If you don't make interaction with everyone, means you are egoistic , you do not care. This guy just meets everyone, makes fun of things, makes you feel light and you react to it. He feels no pressure of whatsoever is the situation.



5. Treat everyone well : Even if you do not know someone, its your humanity and responsibility that you should treat the one well; and not ignoring the person, insulting the person just because you don't know him. I observed that Amit threw party to everyone and almost everyone contributed to the party expenses even if Amit has not talked to one. Many of them might not like the guy, but Amit doesn't really care. He believes in thanking. He just believes to do his preferred action if his action comes up with some fruitful result for the good of someone.

He is the personification, of 'its important to know how much you live, not how long you live' !

To see his pics of Farewell, go here.

Wishing Amit Patel a good luck for his future endeavors.

GOD bless you!

Thanks.